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Friday 23 October 2015
Emotional abuse hurts more?...
While the scars of physical abuse are visible, the impact of constant verbal badgering is far worse.
Victims of physical abuse find sympathizers because of the physical evidence, however, this is not the case with those who are constantly exposed to verbal badgering as the scars are not visible on the surface. Like in the case of 27-year-old, Reshma Shah, whose life had become a living hell. She says, "When I tied the knot, I felt I got married to the man of my dreams. Ravi, had second thoughts about marrying me because I was a bit plump, but my parents convinced me that there was nothing to be concerned about. Teasing made way for nasty and sarcastic comments. He would make snide remarks about my lack of control around food because I had put on a little more weight after marriage."
Reshma, adds that his sarcastic comments hampered her self-esteem to such an extent that she felt that everybody thought of her that way. She adds, "These remarks were not only confined to the bedroom, but were passed in front of his parents and relatives. There were comparisons with his former girlfriends, and that only made me more depressed," leaving her with no option but to seek help.
Emotional abuse can alter your personality
Psychiatrist, Anjali Chhabria, says, "Emotional abuse takes a negative toll on an individual's self-concept, self-esteem, self-confidence, mood, behaviour, interpersonal relations, efficiency, reasoning and judgment. All of us want to be loved, looked after and taken care of and want that someone to be our strength in good and bad times. Instead, if that someone, is the one emotionally abusing you, it can leave one helpless, hopeless and completely dysfunctional. It not only affects your personal relationships, it can alter and change you as a person."
Effects of emotional abuse on an individual
According to Chhabria, criticism, constant abuse and emotional neglect can cause irreparable damage, making the individual confused, anxious and unable to make decisions. This stress often leads to psychological problems such as fear, anxiety, depression, lack of sleep, crying spells, anger, irritation, etc. In some cases it can also make people lose trust in the concept of committed relationships. It can cause substance dependency and abuse and in some cases forces the person to cheat and have an affair outside their relationship or marriage.
Symptoms of emotional abuse, according to consultant psychiatrist Dr Parul Tank.
- Getting criticised, belittled or humiliated often
- Feeling isolated from others
- Finding it difficult to predict partners' reaction of understand and explain irrational behaviour
- Sense of self doubt and distrust
- Feeling of anxiety and wanting to escape
How to deal with it?
According to Tank that is the hardest part. She says, Often, the person finds it hard to get away because there are no obvious signs, and the way one is abused, the victim often feels guilty for his/her behaviour as they feel they have brought it on themselves."
Anjali adds, "It's important you understand the underlying cause of the abuse. Sometimes it could be your insecurity and low self-image triggering such a situation. If it's your partner and he/she is unable to look at the problem, it's best to take some advice. Discuss the matter with a well wisher or someone who knows you well."
Victims of physical abuse find sympathizers because of the physical evidence, however, this is not the case with those who are constantly exposed to verbal badgering as the scars are not visible on the surface. Like in the case of 27-year-old, Reshma Shah, whose life had become a living hell. She says, "When I tied the knot, I felt I got married to the man of my dreams. Ravi, had second thoughts about marrying me because I was a bit plump, but my parents convinced me that there was nothing to be concerned about. Teasing made way for nasty and sarcastic comments. He would make snide remarks about my lack of control around food because I had put on a little more weight after marriage."
Reshma, adds that his sarcastic comments hampered her self-esteem to such an extent that she felt that everybody thought of her that way. She adds, "These remarks were not only confined to the bedroom, but were passed in front of his parents and relatives. There were comparisons with his former girlfriends, and that only made me more depressed," leaving her with no option but to seek help.
Emotional abuse can alter your personality
Psychiatrist, Anjali Chhabria, says, "Emotional abuse takes a negative toll on an individual's self-concept, self-esteem, self-confidence, mood, behaviour, interpersonal relations, efficiency, reasoning and judgment. All of us want to be loved, looked after and taken care of and want that someone to be our strength in good and bad times. Instead, if that someone, is the one emotionally abusing you, it can leave one helpless, hopeless and completely dysfunctional. It not only affects your personal relationships, it can alter and change you as a person."
Effects of emotional abuse on an individual
According to Chhabria, criticism, constant abuse and emotional neglect can cause irreparable damage, making the individual confused, anxious and unable to make decisions. This stress often leads to psychological problems such as fear, anxiety, depression, lack of sleep, crying spells, anger, irritation, etc. In some cases it can also make people lose trust in the concept of committed relationships. It can cause substance dependency and abuse and in some cases forces the person to cheat and have an affair outside their relationship or marriage.
Symptoms of emotional abuse, according to consultant psychiatrist Dr Parul Tank.
- Getting criticised, belittled or humiliated often
- Feeling isolated from others
- Finding it difficult to predict partners' reaction of understand and explain irrational behaviour
- Sense of self doubt and distrust
- Feeling of anxiety and wanting to escape
How to deal with it?
According to Tank that is the hardest part. She says, Often, the person finds it hard to get away because there are no obvious signs, and the way one is abused, the victim often feels guilty for his/her behaviour as they feel they have brought it on themselves."
Anjali adds, "It's important you understand the underlying cause of the abuse. Sometimes it could be your insecurity and low self-image triggering such a situation. If it's your partner and he/she is unable to look at the problem, it's best to take some advice. Discuss the matter with a well wisher or someone who knows you well."
Tuesday 13 October 2015
Prime Minister’s Scholarship Scheme...
Prime Minister’s Scholarship Scheme
MINISTRY OF DEFENCE Department of Ex-Servicemen Welfare PM’S SCHOLARSHIP SCHEME FOR DEPENDENT WARDS / WIDOWS OF EX-SERVICEMEN AND EX INDIAN COAST GUARD PERSONNELFOR ACADEMIC YEAR 2015-16
For details visit:
http://www.scholarshipsinindia.com/prime-minister-scholarship-for-exserviceman-wards.html
All The Best
MINISTRY OF DEFENCE Department of Ex-Servicemen Welfare PM’S SCHOLARSHIP SCHEME FOR DEPENDENT WARDS / WIDOWS OF EX-SERVICEMEN AND EX INDIAN COAST GUARD PERSONNELFOR ACADEMIC YEAR 2015-16
For details visit:
http://www.scholarshipsinindia.com/prime-minister-scholarship-for-exserviceman-wards.html
All The Best
Friday 9 October 2015
Oxford-Indira Gandhi Graduate Scholarships...
Oxford-Indira Gandhi Graduate Scholarships
Up to two full scholarships are available for applicants who are either ordinarily resident in India or have previously studied at an Indian higher education institution. You must be applying for one of the eligible master’s courses listed below or for a DPhil course with proposed research in the eligible areas of study.
For details visit:
http://www.scholarshipsinindia.com/oxford-indira-gandhi-graduate-scholarship.html
Best Wishes
Up to two full scholarships are available for applicants who are either ordinarily resident in India or have previously studied at an Indian higher education institution. You must be applying for one of the eligible master’s courses listed below or for a DPhil course with proposed research in the eligible areas of study.
For details visit:
http://www.scholarshipsinindia.com/oxford-indira-gandhi-graduate-scholarship.html
Best Wishes
love...
Lovers facing distress from families, society, panchayats, relatives, police etc. Please write to helpline@lovecommandos.org or call on the helpline 09313784375/ 09313550006
Mission Love is important for unity of the country. Only Inter caste and Inter religious marriages can prevent the country from disintegration, hon'ble Supreme Court has observed.
For general counseling and guidance please call between 11AM to 7 PM. However in emergencies you can call 24X7.
Please note that your emails and calls may be attended or seen by different persons in the organization. While calling, you may be required to share some details each time.
Couples wishing to get married please email scanned copies of your age proof and address proof of both of you to helpline@lovecommandos.org.
The couples intending to marry must have their Age Proof and Address Proof with them. The bride should be 18+ and the bridegroom 21+ in age.
The couples have to bear actual expenses on their lawful marriages, intimation to authorities and families through official departments, legal process, protection process, process for cancellation of FIR/MPR etc.
There is no COURT MARRIAGE, as there is no law that allows a court to conduct ceremonies, however, some advocates befool lovers. Please remain cautious.
Marriage must be got performed at a lawfully valid place because all the temples or Arya Samaj etc. are not treated valid due to various directions by the Hon’ble High Courts of Delhi, MP, Punjab & Haryana, Rajasthan etc. A marriage at a lawfully valid place may be got registered, however, it is not mandatory as the proposed law is Pending before the Hon’ble Parliament since 2005-06. Love Commandos helps you get married at a lawfully valid place.
Inter Caste marriages do not require the provisions of Special Marriage Act (SMA).
Even if some people undergo SMA marriage permissions under Section 13, they need to comply with provisions of Section 4 also.
Inter religious marriages with lawful conversion do not require SMA.
As a matter of policy we do not interact with parents of anyone. We have faith and belief in our Constitution, Resolutions of Parliament and Guidelines of Hon’ble Supreme Court of India.
The Parliament had way back in October 1978 omitted the provision of Guardianship in marriages, our great constitution guarantees marriage by choice of both, the Hon’ble Supreme Court has given detailed guidelines to promote Inter caste and inter religious marriages in Criminal Appeal No. 958/2011. It has also directed for prosecution of such persons opposing such marriages under the legal provisions.
All Our 7 shelters in Delhi and NCR and other make shift shelters in other parts of the country are free for stay, food and emergencies.
Minors and non-earning / unemployed couples should please excuse us.
Mission Love is important for unity of the country. Only Inter caste and Inter religious marriages can prevent the country from disintegration, hon'ble Supreme Court has observed.
For general counseling and guidance please call between 11AM to 7 PM. However in emergencies you can call 24X7.
Please note that your emails and calls may be attended or seen by different persons in the organization. While calling, you may be required to share some details each time.
Couples wishing to get married please email scanned copies of your age proof and address proof of both of you to helpline@lovecommandos.org.
The couples intending to marry must have their Age Proof and Address Proof with them. The bride should be 18+ and the bridegroom 21+ in age.
The couples have to bear actual expenses on their lawful marriages, intimation to authorities and families through official departments, legal process, protection process, process for cancellation of FIR/MPR etc.
There is no COURT MARRIAGE, as there is no law that allows a court to conduct ceremonies, however, some advocates befool lovers. Please remain cautious.
Marriage must be got performed at a lawfully valid place because all the temples or Arya Samaj etc. are not treated valid due to various directions by the Hon’ble High Courts of Delhi, MP, Punjab & Haryana, Rajasthan etc. A marriage at a lawfully valid place may be got registered, however, it is not mandatory as the proposed law is Pending before the Hon’ble Parliament since 2005-06. Love Commandos helps you get married at a lawfully valid place.
Inter Caste marriages do not require the provisions of Special Marriage Act (SMA).
Even if some people undergo SMA marriage permissions under Section 13, they need to comply with provisions of Section 4 also.
Inter religious marriages with lawful conversion do not require SMA.
As a matter of policy we do not interact with parents of anyone. We have faith and belief in our Constitution, Resolutions of Parliament and Guidelines of Hon’ble Supreme Court of India.
The Parliament had way back in October 1978 omitted the provision of Guardianship in marriages, our great constitution guarantees marriage by choice of both, the Hon’ble Supreme Court has given detailed guidelines to promote Inter caste and inter religious marriages in Criminal Appeal No. 958/2011. It has also directed for prosecution of such persons opposing such marriages under the legal provisions.
All Our 7 shelters in Delhi and NCR and other make shift shelters in other parts of the country are free for stay, food and emergencies.
Minors and non-earning / unemployed couples should please excuse us.
Thursday 8 October 2015
Causes of Infertility in Females...
Infertility is one of the major causes of distress in the life of a married woman. Infertility in women can be due to various factors. The treatment options for infertility in women depend on the type of infertility and the causative factor. The most common cause of infertility in women is ovulation disorder and aging. With age, the chance of getting pregnant becomes slim. Let us study in detail the causative factors of infertility in women.
Just like men, infertility in women can be due to a wide number of factors, each complex in their own way. With the advancement of medical technology, most of them are treatable. Ovulation disorder is found to be most common cause of infertility in female.
The Other Causes Are:
The blockage of fallopian tubes
Disorders in the reproduction tract due to endometriosis or pelvic inflammatory diseases
Congenital birth defects where the uterine structures and the uterinefibroids gets affected due to numerous miscarriages
The other major factor is aging
How ovulation disorders cause infertility?
Ovulation disorder refers to the malfunctioning of the reproduction system. This problem encompasses several other systems like the hypothalamus, pituitary gland, thyroid gland, adrenal gland and the genital organs too. For instance if the progesterone levels are low, which are produced by the ovaries, the lining of the uterine wall does not build up which is potentially preparing itself for the fetus. Then again ovulation is triggered by the luteinizing hormone and the follicle stimulating hormone. But when the gonadotropin hormone released by the hypothalamus does not occur, ovulation stops. Further if there is a tumor or Prolactinoma is the pituitary gland, it fails to produce the essential prolactin hormone that is responsible for stimulating milk production and triggers ovulation.
There are several other factors that cause ovulation problems:
PCOS or the polycystic ovary syndrome
Hypo and hyper thyroidism
Problem with the adrenal gland secretion
Excessive obesity or sudden and extreme weight loss
Diabetes
High amount of stress or excessive exercise
Other psychological factors causing hormonal imbalance
Early menopause is another cause where the ovaries simply fail to produce enough eggs even if the woman is relatively young.
Blockage in the Fallopian Tubes
Endometriosis, ectopic surgery or a pelvic inflammatory disease can cause a blockage in the fallopian tubes. Even a ruptured appendix can be a factor apart from unusual structural disorders that are a result of birth defects. Blockage can be caused by presence of fibroids inside the uterus or accumulation of scar tissues in the adhesion or the unconnected structures within the uterus and pelvic area. This naturally hinders the free movement of the eggs from the ovary to the uterus.
The fertilized egg cannot implant in the uterus
This infertility factor is caused by changed property of the cervical mucus. In normal cases the cervical mucus is thick in texture. This makes it difficult for the sperm to enter till before ovulation takes place. After ovulation, the mucus transforms into a clear and elastic fluid so that the sperm can easily swim through the mucus and reach the uterus and fallopian tubes.
But in abnormal situations, this transformation of mucus does not take place. This is caused by some infection or the presence of antibodies which hinders a successful pregnancy.
Age
A woman’s fertility is greatly affected by aging. When a woman is 25, she has about 25% chance of getting pregnant during intercourse and the percentage rapidly falls with the advancement of age. After her mid-thirties and by the time she is in her early forties, the chances are as less as 5-10%. As the reproductive system goes inactive, the woman has to deal with several compound infertility issues.
Apart from the depletion of the ovarian reserve, there are other factors to contend with. Some eggs remain in the ovary and do not mature. With the advancement of age when these eggs are released, they usually are found to have a hard outer covering which the sperm fails to penetrate and fertilize, thus leading to infertility.
PID
A major cause of infertility is the Pelvic Infertility Disease. This is caused by the infection of the cervix, ovaries, fallopian tubes, uterus or the pelvis primarily by bacteria causing sexually transmitted diseases. These bacteria can enter the system during abortion, ruptured appendix, and insertion of IUDs, childbirth or hysterectomy.
Just like men, infertility in women can be due to a wide number of factors, each complex in their own way. With the advancement of medical technology, most of them are treatable. Ovulation disorder is found to be most common cause of infertility in female.
The Other Causes Are:
The blockage of fallopian tubes
Disorders in the reproduction tract due to endometriosis or pelvic inflammatory diseases
Congenital birth defects where the uterine structures and the uterinefibroids gets affected due to numerous miscarriages
The other major factor is aging
How ovulation disorders cause infertility?
Ovulation disorder refers to the malfunctioning of the reproduction system. This problem encompasses several other systems like the hypothalamus, pituitary gland, thyroid gland, adrenal gland and the genital organs too. For instance if the progesterone levels are low, which are produced by the ovaries, the lining of the uterine wall does not build up which is potentially preparing itself for the fetus. Then again ovulation is triggered by the luteinizing hormone and the follicle stimulating hormone. But when the gonadotropin hormone released by the hypothalamus does not occur, ovulation stops. Further if there is a tumor or Prolactinoma is the pituitary gland, it fails to produce the essential prolactin hormone that is responsible for stimulating milk production and triggers ovulation.
There are several other factors that cause ovulation problems:
PCOS or the polycystic ovary syndrome
Hypo and hyper thyroidism
Problem with the adrenal gland secretion
Excessive obesity or sudden and extreme weight loss
Diabetes
High amount of stress or excessive exercise
Other psychological factors causing hormonal imbalance
Early menopause is another cause where the ovaries simply fail to produce enough eggs even if the woman is relatively young.
Blockage in the Fallopian Tubes
Endometriosis, ectopic surgery or a pelvic inflammatory disease can cause a blockage in the fallopian tubes. Even a ruptured appendix can be a factor apart from unusual structural disorders that are a result of birth defects. Blockage can be caused by presence of fibroids inside the uterus or accumulation of scar tissues in the adhesion or the unconnected structures within the uterus and pelvic area. This naturally hinders the free movement of the eggs from the ovary to the uterus.
The fertilized egg cannot implant in the uterus
This infertility factor is caused by changed property of the cervical mucus. In normal cases the cervical mucus is thick in texture. This makes it difficult for the sperm to enter till before ovulation takes place. After ovulation, the mucus transforms into a clear and elastic fluid so that the sperm can easily swim through the mucus and reach the uterus and fallopian tubes.
But in abnormal situations, this transformation of mucus does not take place. This is caused by some infection or the presence of antibodies which hinders a successful pregnancy.
Age
A woman’s fertility is greatly affected by aging. When a woman is 25, she has about 25% chance of getting pregnant during intercourse and the percentage rapidly falls with the advancement of age. After her mid-thirties and by the time she is in her early forties, the chances are as less as 5-10%. As the reproductive system goes inactive, the woman has to deal with several compound infertility issues.
Apart from the depletion of the ovarian reserve, there are other factors to contend with. Some eggs remain in the ovary and do not mature. With the advancement of age when these eggs are released, they usually are found to have a hard outer covering which the sperm fails to penetrate and fertilize, thus leading to infertility.
PID
A major cause of infertility is the Pelvic Infertility Disease. This is caused by the infection of the cervix, ovaries, fallopian tubes, uterus or the pelvis primarily by bacteria causing sexually transmitted diseases. These bacteria can enter the system during abortion, ruptured appendix, and insertion of IUDs, childbirth or hysterectomy.
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